This post describes our first few weeks in Canberra, from arriving on 23 September 2016.
About 14 years ago we bought an apartment in an area of Canberra called the Kingston Foreshore, which was just starting to be developed for residential housing. We thought that it would be a good place to live when we eventually wanted to down-size. We rented out the apartment while continuing to live in our house in Curtin.
We sold our house in 2011, when we decided to extend our stay in China. Now we were returning to Canberra and planned to live in the apartment.
We arranged to stay with my sister and her husband for a few days before moving into our apartment. But there were several issues with the apartment, and we ended up staying with them for two weeks. Thank god for little sisters!!!
I found the next few weeks very stressful. Why? We had moved house many times in the past - always a bit stressful, but I had always coped without too much trouble - so what was different this time?
Well, looking back I think it was a combination of several things.
Probably the most important was the apartment itself. It now looked much smaller than we remembered - how on earth would we fit our stuff in here? And there were structural problems too, such as the two water leaks from above (in our living room wall and bedroom ceiling). They would need to be fixed before we could move in. The apartment also needed to be painted, and new carpet laid. Lots of headaches!
Secondly, reverse culture shock. We were coming back, after 6 years teaching English in China. Yes, we had returned often during the 6 years, but this was permanent. We both missed our simple, yet enjoyable, life in China.
Thirdly, the weather. Normally, Spring in Canberra (Sept/Oct/Nov) is usually nice and I was looking forward to clear blue skies, warm days. But Canberra had had a very wet winter, and that pattern continued. The weather was wet, cold and windy - didn't really improve until December. Also our car began playing up - the starter motor!
And I guess age may also have something to do with it. What seemed a minor issue 10 or 20 years ago now takes on greater significance.
These things all came together in a "perfect storm" = stress!! Vera handled the situation better than me. Somehow I expected the move to go seamlessly and quickly, but of course that doesn't happen in real life ... dealing with tradesmen ... everything takes time (and money).
Here are some photos of our apartment taken during the first few weeks in Canberra. I'll do another post focusing more on people.
We stayed with Peter and Aniko Carey for the first two weeks. Dinner, from left: me, Richard Carey and his girlfriend Liz Paver, Peter Carey, Adrienne Carey, Aniko Carey (my sister), and Vera. |
The helpful lads from Leader Removals - they took just 3 hours to move all our stuff into our apartment. |
We moved most things into our living room, to be sorted out. Wow, boxes everywhere - hardly space to walk around. How the hell is all that going to fit into our small apartment? |
20 October 2016. Finally the water leaks were fixed, and the holes and skirting boards replaced/repaired. |
Stuart McDonald did a great job with re-plastering the holes in the wall and ceiling. |
21 October 2016. Stuart returned the next day and used his sanding machine in preparation for painting. |
1 November 2016. Once the plastering and painting were done, the next job was to lay new carpet. We moved everything from the living room onto the balcony. |
The carpet-layer at work. |
First the underlay, then the carpet. We surprised how much new paint and new carpet lifted the whole place. It was starting to feel much more like home. |
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The beginning in Canberra was tough, so many unexpected issues to deal with. Friends told me to slow down, and take it one day at a time. They said it takes months to really settle down in a new place. They were right - I was far too optimistic and impatient. Even now (March 2017) after being back 6 months, we still have a number things still to organise.
The apartment is getting there - still stuff to do, but most of the important things are in place. Vera has done a wonderful job. She was/is my rock. Just so practical and sensible.
And then, in the midst of all the mayhem, on 3 November 2016 I got a job offer to teach an intensive English course at the Australian National University (ANU College). But that's another story - and will be the subject of a separate post.
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The next post will cover some of the people/friends we connected with after our return to Canberra; and the post after that will be about teaching at ANU College.
Best wishes, stay healthy and keep smiling.
Alex & Vera Olah
Canberra, Australia
Wednesday, 22 March 2017
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